So? What are the point? According
to Daniel Goldman, he is an expert of EQ, at least there are 5 basics of
emotion’s skills. The are:
1. Self
awareness
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Aware about the strengths and weakness
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Making right decision
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To be realistic and confident
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Believe about abilities
2. Self
management
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Life’s problem managements
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Having awareness but not sensitive
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Self control
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Being tough to wake up after being down
3. Self
encoregement
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Strong desire
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Spirited and not easily frustrated
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Empathy
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To feel what people feel
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Get along well and trustable
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Adaptable easily
4. Social
skill
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Able to be wise for certain situation
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Being interactive
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Influential and being the leader
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Respect other people’s opinion
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Able to overcome the problems
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Able to have
team work
What is it for?
This emotion’s skill is very good
for achieving your dreams and careers. The higher your dream is ... the more
important this emotion’s skill will be. As a matter of fact, our EQ is more
flexible to make our dream come true.
Let us see the functions of
this emotion’s learning. They’re,:
1. Someone
will have good relationship with the society because of being open minded and
pleasant
2. Someone
will have a positive attitude to avoid something harmful for themselves like
smoking, being alcoholic, and drugs
3. Someone
will have the ability to understand the emotions information in our surrounding
like the ability to know some signs such as “Im getting sick” or “your words
hurt me”
4. Someone
can avoid any conflict, fighting and violance
So, how to develop this emotions
skill?
The most important is having
regular exercise
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Being good listener
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More discussion
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Learning how to understand people and their
emotions
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Be more patient to hold the emotion to face any
problem
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Be more open minded person
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Easy to say YES for something poritive
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Dare to face the problem
So? What is it to do with english
learning in pare?
Well, it is a small village with
the big vision. With so many limits and simplicity, pare has proven able to be
the centre of english learning, even it is the first breaktrought of indonesia.
It has made me feeling proud to be part of this community.
PARE, is the real practice of
bhineka tunggal ika, the students come from all around indonesia , from sabang
to merauke. In the different tribes and different education background, but
they have the same mission and vision also the same interest. There are some
reasons because having the power of kepepet, but many also came here with the
reasons the power of iming iming.
If i may say, by and large they
came here with high target and short time. And here we go, the importand of
having emotioanal skill. It is needed to support the learning. Adapting with
the hot weather, a very simple conditions, the food option, cycling, and a very
tight schedule day and night. We often found the fact that many student have
studying shock at culture shock as well. Some students they can stand even much
longer but some also decided to turn over. I myself think that english learning
is steps the student will achieve, certainly with a hard work and creativity
minds because english is not something instant like a noodle done in 5 minutes.
So the most important is the willingness nd not the skills. That is the great
statements student can bear in their mind at the first learning english.
English is a communication’s skill, it is how to interact and get a long with
other people. The first important step is having confident to start making a
move. If only there are some mistakes happened. Believe it, it’s part of the
peroccess. Because success is the process and not the destination. Good luck my
dear friends
my teacher in daffodils
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